A Free Resource for Engaged Couples

The Mini
Playbook

Three Plays for Your Wedding Season

For couples who want to make the best plays now to have the best marriage later.

⏱  ~20–30 minutes together
Do it together now
Sit down together and go through all three plays interactively. Type your answers as you go and save them at the end.
📄  Do it on your own time
Download the PDF
Need to split it up or prefer pen and paper? Download the fillable PDF and work through it whenever works best for both of you.
Wedding ceremony

Before You Begin

Why Grace Matters This Season

Grace isn't passive. It's God's empowering presence to carry this season well. Here's what it actually does for you:

01It's empowering. It gives you the power to do what you couldn't do on your own.
02It sets a healthy pace. No rushing, no burnout — just steady steps.
03It gives you access to divine help. You were never meant to do this alone.
04It lets you be present. Able to enjoy every moment instead of rushing past it.
05It releases control. Of things that were never yours to carry.
06It relieves pressure. The weight was never meant to sit on you alone.
07It reminds you you're loved and enough. Before any of the planning.
08It frees you from comparison. And expectations that were never yours to meet.
09It gives you strength. For every task on the list, every single day.
10It helps you navigate tension. With family and friends, with wisdom over reaction.
11It keeps your partner the focus. Through all of it — every plan, every decision.
And we are here to help guide you into that grace.

How you play the wedding season shapes the marriage that follows.

You didn't get engaged to become a wedding planner. You got engaged because you found someone worth promising forever to. Here are three short plays to help you stay connected through the season — make each play together in one sitting or multiple.